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"Sacred Moments"
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Sacred Moments
A Quarterly Newsletter for Tantric Lovers
Summer 2007
How to Find Your Woman's G Spot
After several hours of probing and poking, we were about to give up when I felt this unfamiliar yet incredibly pleasurable shockwave travel from my vagina through my heart. Amazed, I responded with "oh, my God! What took you so long!" and within a few seconds, I had shot like a rocket ship to place I had never been before. Through all my sexual exploration, I had not experienced such a profound and deep sense of pleasure. As I moaned, purred and clutched the sheets, my lover continued to firmly rotate his index and middle fingers round and round, massaging and teasing that amazingly elusive, mystical spot; and sending me into deeper and deeper states of breathless desire. When he inserted his hardened cock into my very hot and receptive yoni, energy rushed through my body so quickly that I felt as if I were levitating.
My vaginal walls quickly became thicker and hotter, swelling with the rush of blood that was vigorously pumped by my palpitating heart. My physcial sensations continued to intensify: touch and hearing and taste were all incredibly magnified. Each thrust continued to bring a new and unique wave of excitement. As my lover creatively discovered various ways to stimulate me, I noticed how my sense of trust for him deepened. In that moment, I was able to surrender to him much more completely than I ever had before.
We continued to experience deeply passionate love play for several hours. Afterwards, as he held and caressed me, all I could whisper was "Thank You" over and over again. His willingness to patiently journey with me to find the Sacred Spot not only allowed for a new and unique experience of sexual pleasure - more importantly, our awareness of the tremendous potency of our vibrant sexual energies deepened. What a wonderful gift!
The G Spot (Grafenberg Spot) has become important in the anatomy of female sexuality because it is the second most sensitive and stimulating area of the vaginal region…the clitoris being the first. The G Spot is difficult for a woman to find on her own, as it is located somewhere in the anterior (front) wall of the vagina. The exact diameter and location of the spot will vary from woman to woman; as will her experience of sensation in that area.
Because the G Spot is easier, and much more enjoyable, to discover with a partner, the process, in and of itself, can infuse a stagnant sexual relationship with juicy vitality!
To begin the search, imagine a small clock inside the vagina; with 12 o'clock pointing towards the navel. The G Spot will be somewhere between the 11 o'clock and 1 o'clock positions, halfway between the pubic bone and the urethra, and near the neck of the bladder. Unlike the clitoris, which protrudes from the surrounding tissue, the G Spot is buried deep within the vaginal walls and requires firm pressure to stimulate it.
The following will guide you in your sensual exploration for the Sacred Spot. Remember to stay heart-centered and generate the deepest sense of worship for your beautiful Goddess.
Have your Goddess urinate before starting your exploration. Sometimes pressure on the Sacred Spot will simulate a need to eliminate. This will help reassure that if the urge strikes during exploration, her bladder is actually empty.
The exact location of the G-Spot varies slightly from woman to woman. It is normally found about two inches in from the opening of the vagina, on the anterior wall (toward the stomach). The woman is lying on her belly with her hips slightly elevated. When in this position, the partner should apply firm pressure with two inserted fingers pressing down towards the bed. The opposite hand can be placed outside the vagina, holding the area for support. If a woman chooses to lie on her back, she or her partner can insert a couple of fingers curved upwards and make a "come hither" motion.
Vaginal stimulation may be unpleasant if the vagina is not well lubricated. If vaginal dryness is a concern, make sure to use a water-based lubricant, such as Astroglide, during your exploration.
If engaging in intercourse, many women find the woman-on-top or the sitting position the best arrangement for providing stimulation to the G-Spot
G SPOT ORGASMS
If a woman is fortunate enough to experience orgasm during G Spot stimulation, a colorless fluid may suddenly gush out through the urethra. The G Spot fluid smells sweet like clover or honey; it does not stain. Reassure your lover that her offering is a Divine Gift!
Every woman who has experienced G Spot orgasm has a different way of getting there. But certain conditions need to exist to increase the probabilities of her attainment:
she has to be in a highly trusting relationship where she does not worry about what she looks like, sounds like, or smells like. Her lover is accepting and nonjudgmental which, in turn, boosts her level of confidence and feelings of safety;
and she has to be extremely sexually aroused. Women are slower to reach high states of arousal than men; ask her to guide you if you are not sure what turns her on. If she desires, help her to achieve one or two orgasms before attempting to stimulate a G Spot orgasm.
Keep in mind that each Lover is responsible for his or her own sexual experience. Slowing down the process to establish deeper bonds of trust and connecting in a space of total acceptance will transcend you both. Tantric lovers will always share in a mutually gratifying spiritual and sexual experience when the intent to experience the Beloved is genuinely and unconditionally present.
Namaste,
Shantiananda
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